After that guy determines that you really like him, he has you, and he’s no longer worried that he could lose you to another guy.
He feels secure and he feels the current relationship dynamic is secure.
especially if he feels some amount of insecurity about how much she’s into him.
Maybe the idea of growing with someone is exciting.The fear is rooted in insecurities: What if they don’t like me as much as I like them?What if they’re not that into me and I end up making a fool of myself falling for someone when they don’t feel the same way? It may seem hard to believe, but in the beginning of a relationship, a guy will try to feel out how much a woman likes him …When I was young and looked at people whose age I am now, I often wondered if their perception of themselves changed when they looked in the mirror, or if they still had the young mind in an older body.
He would text me things like, ‘I miss you’ and ‘Can’t wait to see you’ and on our second date he said he ‘never liked a girl so much after only two dates’. All this was great, but then he started to shift and lately has been acting really shady- he cancels on me last minute, he’s been acting distant, and I’m just getting weird vibes.Maybe I'm ready -- and maybe it will be the perfect fit.